We have not talked since monday night.
Monday was when she told me that she was still very attracted to me but that she did not think she would ever be in love with me the way she wanted to. Well after reading the book from cover to cover on tuesday evening I decided I would give it a try.

According to the section of the book which is about winning back the one you lost, I wussed on her and it became boring for her. No challenge for her nothing exciting for her. This makes since to me because it's what I did. I confessed my love for her early on in the relationship, too early according to the book.
And she was at that time not able to reciprocate her love for me, although she did confess her love to me later on.

It also got rather boring these past winter months. She hates getting out when it's cold. She dispises the cold weather.
Any way the book says to make myself available to her, be there in person. It says to start with maybe a quick phone call or just drop in for a quick visit. Or maybe leave her just a short note. But don't get personal don't get emotional don't wear out your welcome. Cut it short be the one to end the conversation, be the one to leave, but by all means keep it short on your terms not hers.

Well I am going to call her this evening, just to say hello and ask how things are going. I will keep it short and sweet and friendly. No personal questions no digging for info just a quick call to say hello and ask how she is doing. I will be in charge!
If she is not home I will leave a message for her to call me. When she calls, I will keep it short and sweet. I will cut the conversation off, I will be in control of the situation not her.

I'll let you all know how it goes.

Can I get Renee to fall in love with me?
I know I have heard it all before, but look I am in love with her and I want her to fall in love with me.
Is there a way to get this to happen. I have gotten the book "Love Tactics, how to win the one you want"
The book actually promises you that it can happen.

This blog is going to record every aspect of my attempt to get Renee to fall in love with me.

Renee and I have been friends since junior high, We dated in highschool and after 25 years and both our divorces we started dating again. We dated for 10 months. We had a lot of fun times good memories and great sex. But then about a month or so ago we started having trouble, she said that she only loved me as a friend and even though she was very attracted to me she did not think she would ever really be IN LOVE with me the way she wanted to be. And she thought we should just date and not be serious, she told me that there was no one else and that as long as we were still JUST dating that she would be monogomous and that we could still have some good times.

Anyway I have gotten the book and am going to give you all a blow by blow account of my quest for Renee.